Becoming A Better Blogger

I am rubbish at new year resolutions and frankly, stereotypical with it all. Every year I promise to get thinner/richer/teetotaller/become a better blogger and every year I fail miserably. By January 10th I’m reaching for the wine (bearing in mind, I don’t normally start dry January until the 5th as it’s my birthday on the 4th and pretty miserable already without giving up the booze) and by February 1st, I’ve already put the weight back on that I lost in the first few weeks.

So this year, instead of crying into my wine and cheese board because I’m a resolution failure once again, I thought I’d set myself one goal. Just one teenie weenie little goal that could potentially help me get my ass in gear – to stop procrastinating. I really am just a terrible lollygagger (and no, this isn’t a euphemism ) and need to be a better blogger.

My blogger journey

2018 has seen me halfheartedly try my hand at blogging, something that was my original plan way before I stumbled across the fascinating scene that is the Interiors world of Instagram. I thought Instagram was just for posting pictures of the lasagne you’d just eaten in a dodgy pub or your dog licking your face, but little did I know I was about to fall into a wormhole full of velvet sofas, pink baths and people intensely discussing how to hide your bog behind a large plant.

And here is where the only time procrastination probably helped. I spent so long (around 6 months) researching how to start/write/promote a blog that my Instagram account kind of took over, and what a thrilling ride it has been!

The most wonderful sofa by @hilaryandflo – and where my love affair of green sofas began

But back to the blog. Here are a few things that I have been meaning to do since first coming up with my blog name nearly 2 years ago and just need to bloody get on with…

Get a Decent Laptop

We had a laptop, one that had been used as a tap-dancing station for my daughter, a coffee coaster by my Husband and trip hazard for myself. Suffice to say, we did not look after the laptop very well. It would take about 10 hours to load up, by which point I’d forgotten why I’d turned the damn thing on in the first place and often the screen would go blank after I’d just written 500 words for a blog which of course I’d not saved.

So, I found myself squinting at my iPhone trying to piece together my new blog and hoping for the best when I pressed publish.

Thankfully, came to the rescue when they kindly gifted me the new Microsoft Surface Laptop which is perfect for a blogger. It is lightweight and beautifully slimline which makes it perfect to take on the road with you. It is quick to load up and log on and with its Intel Core i5 technology and 8 GB RAM, makes it an extremely speedy laptop. The screen is very sharp, but not too bright which is perfect for when you’re staring at Photoshop day in, day out! I would highly recommend this laptop.

The very sleek Microsoft Surface Laptop
The laptop fits perfectly into my office space
I love the felt like surface of the keyboard on the Microsoft Surface Laptop
You can see the surface closer here.
The screen is sharp, but not too bright
Oh hi there! Just me casually drinking a cuppa whilst blogging 🙂

Teach myself how to Use my Olympus PEN – properly!

At the beginning of the year I was all guns blazing; I’m going to make it as a blogger, you mark my words! I had the website up and running, a million words running around my head and Mr B had kindly purchased me a new Olympus PEN. I took it out of the box, all shiny and new. I did a few stories of it on Instagram telling my followers how it was going to change my world and then got about taking photos. On manual.

The great thing about an Olympus PEN is the inbuilt Wi-Fi, so I took a few photos of my kitchen on the camera and then the same photos on my iPhone and was extremely disappointed when it appeared the iPhone photos had better clarity and were sharper. I even showed the photos to other people to get them to guess which was the expensive camera and which was the everyday phone and they all agreed with me. So, the Olympus PEN went back into the box, never to be seen again.

But, as I write more of my blogs and realise I would like to try out new things in 2019 (including Stop Motion Animation), the camera is going to have to make an appearance and I’ll need to teach myself how to use it.

I’ve taken more photos of My Olympus PEN Camera than I’ve actually taken with it 🙂

Stop Obsessing Over the Layout of the Blog and just write

Hours spent writing my blogs – 100. Hours spent diddley daddling with my blog layout – 1,439. Yep, I’m not just a faffer when it comes to interiors, I also faff an awful lot online. Take today for example, I spent an hour trying to decide where my Instagram block should go on my website, when really, I needed to be taking photos for this very blog. I need to stop obsessing over the perfect layout and concentrate on creating better content as a blogger!

Forever obsessing over the layout of my blog

Don’t wait for the perfect time to write, just do it, even if it’s 10 minutes

Often, I’m found sat at my kitchen island pondering. Sometimes it’s pondering whether I should go and write a bit on my blog, but I’ve only got 20 minutes until I need to pick the kids up so it’s not enough time. Then I might make a cup of tea, hang out around the kettle for 2 minutes, shout at a listener on Jeremy Vine on BBC Radio 2 for a further 2 minutes and then go back to the island and ponder some more. It took me 20 minutes to write the last 4 paragraphs, just 20 minutes every day over the course of the week would get that blog written.

Make my blog a priority and schedule a time to do it

It’s becoming increasingly evident that Instagram is a fickle beast of which you have absolutely no control over. My account was doing really well last year until one Sunday it seemed that I had dropped off the face of the Instagram earth and ever since then I have struggled to get engagement and followers.

I’ll admit, it has got me down at times because I love the platform and everything I have achieved through it, but then I realised that it had given me the confidence to write a blog and concentrate on interiors. I LOVE writing my blog and I love the blogger community. I’ve now set aside Monday and Wednesday mornings purely for writing.

My Instagram feed. Forever obsessing over it, but it’s made me realise it’s given me the confidence to blog

Stop comparing my blog to everyone else’s and thinking they’re all funnier/better at writing/know their shit

I think this was the biggest hurdle I had to overcome from the beginning. I would regularly read other blogs and constantly think I could never write as well or come up with enough content to be consistent. But, we’ve all got to start somewhere and I find the more I write, the more I learn and hopefully become better at it. Here are a few of my favourite bloggers…

The fabulous luxurious boho blog of
The Instagram Queen –

Every time an idea pops into your head, write it down!

It’s not rocket science is it? As a busy Mum of two, it’s very rare I get a quiet moment to think. Normally ideas pop into my head whilst I’m having a shower or hanging around waiting for the kettle to boil. By the time I sit down to write my next blog, the ideas have long gone, away with my flat stomach of pre-children years and my ability to knock back 10 pints and a few shots on a night out. I always make sure that I have a notepad or my Microsoft Surface Laptop nearby these days, so I can quickly jot down potential ideas.

a bloggers work place. the sofa, coffee table and laptop
A cuppa, my note pad of ideas and the Microsoft Surface Laptop – my happy place

If I can stick to these points, hopefully it will make me a better blogger over the year. I might not win any awards (Amara, I’m looking at you ), but it’s a start! Have you got any good advice? Let me know in the comments.

Mel x


  1. Sharon hornsby
    14/01/2019 / 8:57 pm

    Fab post Mel…. I also need to do most of these things! Thanks so much for including me that’s made me very happy on a dreary Monday eve where once again I have failed to start this weeks blog post 😉 xx

    • Melanie Boyden
      14/01/2019 / 9:58 pm

      Thanks Sharon. I’ve always loved your blog, looks so professional and good advice. I really want to work on mine over the next year. The last couple of months on Instagram has made me realise how little control we have over it and blogging is so much more fun! xx

  2. 09/06/2020 / 7:30 pm
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    • Melanie Boyden
      10/06/2020 / 12:46 pm

      Thank you 🙂

  3. Suerena Garrison
    10/08/2020 / 2:47 pm

    Hi There, I love your blog, I’m obsessed with the green couch and teal walls!! I love every picture on your blog. I started a blog but haven’t followed through, but reading your blog has helped me to be more inspired. Thank You So Much for Blogging!!!

    • Melanie Boyden
      12/08/2020 / 8:55 pm

      Hi Suerena

      Thank you for your lovely message. It took me about a year to finally start blogging properly and I now love it, more so than posting to Instagram. I think the problem for a lot of people when they start blogging is they want their blog to be perfect before they start writing content, but I think you just need to do it and regularly and all the rest will come!

      Mel 🙂

  4. Helen
    31/08/2020 / 4:23 pm

    Please tell me where your beautiful green velvet sofa is from?

    • Melanie Boyden
      02/09/2020 / 4:43 pm

      Hi Helen

      It’s from

      Mel 🙂

  5. Amy
    08/11/2020 / 12:44 pm

    Thanks for the blog. Can you give me any information on the walls in the photo with the green couch? Thank you in advance!

    • Melanie Boyden
      17/11/2020 / 10:19 am

      Hi, It’s from Mel 🙂

  6. Alison
    11/05/2022 / 4:07 pm

    Could you tell me, please, where to purchase the black-and-white chevron rug in the photo with the green velvet couch?

    • Melanie Boyden
      16/05/2022 / 10:20 am

      Hi Alison, it’s from La Redoute 🙂

  7. Rachel
    23/05/2022 / 8:12 pm

    I love this room. Where are the floral pillow cushions from they are gorgeous ?

    • Melanie Boyden
      24/05/2022 / 11:53 am

      This is the fabulous @shelleycarline_design front room 🙂

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